Bedrock Cairn Pro in Charcoal
Size: Mens 11 or Womens 12
You know the story, and if you are not familiar here it is. I bought these on a good deal at REI, I bought the wrong size, I can return them for what I paid but going to see if anyone who missed the deal would want them here first.
As to the sizing. I have a pair of Cairn Pro 3D in 11 so I bought an 11 in these. Well these fit truer to size, I am a 10 or 10.5 usually. So if you are a true 11 or normally a 10.5 or 11 then this might be more for you. I bought another pair in 10 and they fit me perfectly. Take all this with a grain of salt but my experience might help you.
I wore them for about a week so they are worn some but still in great shape.
I'll ship them in the Bedrock box my new ones came in, so while the size on the outside of the box will be wrong it will come with the box and instructions (a single postcard about adjustments)
$65 shipped
Payment can be Zelle, Venmo, or Paypal and I will ship USPS
Pictures and timestamp: https://imgur.com/a/l47tDtR

Hello all, I’m 23F, and I’ve struggled alot with intimacy with people. I’ve never been the girl that guys have wanted growing up which has made me feel ugly and unwanted. I’ve had instances of guys approaching my friends beside me but ignoring me completely.
I’ve experienced same sex attractions most my life, and found that women seem to find me more attractive “I think?” So I tried pursuing them, but i had to stop pursuing that lifestyle since it is sinful.
I’ve tried to find validation and love from people by the things I do. Trying to be seen as intelligent or interesting, but nothing had worked.
I yearn to be loved for my true self. Fully known and loved. I know I can find that in Christ, and pursuing a relationship with Him. I have been trying to pursue a relationship with God but I feel like I’m not trying hard enough. I’ve been struggling with sexual sins which I feel like have kept me stagnant. I want to leave the sins, but I feel like I’ve developed an addiction to these sins because they provide that temporary feeling of being validated and wanted.
I know developing a deep relationship with God will take time, and possibly reviving the intimacy in looking for may take some time as well. I just don’t know how to fill in this void of feeling unwanted and wanting intimacy while pursuing a deeper relationship with God.

‏مرحبا جميعا ‏بدور على خياط او خياطة في عمان بيفصل اواعي مرتبة وشغله منيح لأواعي النسوان زي فساتين (مش لأعراس) او بنطلونات بدله وهيك اشياء. بتنصحوا بمين؟ Hello all Looking for a really good tailor or seamstress for custom making women’s clothing (suit pants, casual dresses, so on). Do you have any suggestions?

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A recent Reddit policy change threatens to kill many beloved third-party mobile apps, making a great many quality-of-life features not seen in the official mobile app permanently inaccessible to users.
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my brother [f17] just hit me physically all because I told him to leave the room - you see I share the same room as a my mother because living in the same bedroom as my older sister would cause issues such as, she tends to film me with a flash when im awake or takes... pictures.... when im asleep. I know this because I always end up being naked so...
I am just done with life, I am done with everything. I am constantly sexualised by women and I hate myself, I tend to attract narc women and there is one narc woman who is my lecturer and she sexualises me a lot, looks at my lips or ass for no reason. If I report her then they will try and kick me out. I thought I was going crazy when she did this but turns out a lot of people can tell...
My mother is an ass to me, she hits me and tells me im a devil for going to concerts but she listens to music and sexualises me. my brothers sexualise me, my older sister used to flash me her... private area but stopped but tends to shame me for being queer, my dad sexualised me and lightly punched me in the face. I have so far £2500 in my bank and I am not working because I have assignments to complete and an upcoming exam. I am just done with everything, I want to end my life.

What's going on?

A recent Reddit policy change threatens to kill many beloved third-party mobile apps, making a great many quality-of-life features not seen in the official mobile app permanently inaccessible to users.
On May 31, 2023, Reddit announced they were raising the price to make calls to their API from being free to a level that will kill every third party app on Reddit, from Apollo to Reddit is Fun to Narwhal to BaconReader.
Even if you're not a mobile user and don't use any of those apps, this is a step toward killing other ways of customizing Reddit, such as Reddit Enhancement Suite or the use of the old.reddit.com desktop interface and everything that goes with it!
This isn't only a problem on the user level: many subreddit moderators depend on tools only available outside the official app to keep their communities on-topic and spam-free.

What's the plan?

On June 12th, many subreddits will be going dark to protest this policy. Some will return after 48 hours: others will go away permanently unless the issue is adequately addressed, since many moderators aren't able to put in the work they do with the poor tools available through the official app. This isn't something any of us do lightly: we do what we do because we love Reddit, and we truly believe this change will make it impossible to keep doing what we love.
The two-day blackout isn't the goal, and it isn't the end. Should things reach the 14th with no sign of Reddit choosing to fix what they've broken, we'll use the community and buzz we've built between then and now as a tool for further action.
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This is the best tl;dr I could make, original reduced by 55%. (I'm a bot)

Russian military performance has been "Mixed" in the last 48 hours of fighting, as there are an increasing number of reports of Russian casualties as they "Withdraw through their own minefields," according to UK intel.
"In some areas, Ukrainian forces have likely made good progress and penetrated the first line of Russian defenses. In others, Ukrainian progress has been slower," Britain's MoD said in a statement.
"Russian performance has been mixed: some units are likely conducting credible maneuver defense operations while others have pulled back in some disorder, amid increased reports of Russian casualties as they withdraw through their own minefields," the ministry added.
The Russian Airforce has also been "Unusually active" over southern Ukraine, according to the intelligence, but it remains "Unclear" whether tactical airstrikes in the area have been effective.
Russia has built a complex defense in southeastern Ukraine, Insider recently reported, comprised of razor wire, anti-tank obstacles, and deadly minefields.
Another dimension of the mine warfare are US-made artillery rounds that lay anti-tank mines in flight being used by the Ukraine forces.

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I cannot help but always feel some resentment based on the impression that men don't have as many opportunities as women when it come to dating. I know that men have some other advantages concerning job opportunities but what will be left for them after we achieve some equality on this issue?

I ask this because one of my favorite fragrances is Givenchy l’Interdit (the EDP, Rouge, and Intense) and it’s definitely a head turner. Thing is is that I’m a guy and that’s actually a women’s perfume. But it doesn’t smell super feminine so I don’t smell like a woman with it on.
Are there any other perfumes that give that effect? I use men’s cologne too, but sometimes those scents are too harsh and can even be turnoffs at times.

I’m a 19 year old woman and I’ve been a fan of the pod pretty much since it started (too young some may say hahah). I’ve never understood why there is such a lack of female guests on the podcast, and those that have recently been on are almost exclusively sex workers. It’s really repetitive, and there are plenty of women who they could realistically get on who have interesting stories to tell rather than all the same tales of Only Fans content. Like the woman who was an expert in exorcism - some people might think it’s bollocks but it was such a different and entertaining episode nonetheless!
I respect the sex workers like Elle Brooke and Rebecca Goodwin who have been on because although it makes ‘easy money’, being a sex worker is in no way an easy job all round. But I find the discussions on HH are often super awkward and aren’t really as progressive in allowing sex work to be seen as an acceptable job, they’re more interested in getting clips of Stevie doing the sex face and stuff.
I hope people agree because it has bugged me for a while. Female guests I think would be great: BambinoBecky again, a female sports pundit/ex player like Alex Scott, Nia Archives would be sick although I imagine she’d be tricky to get on, more women who are experts in XYZ…

1561 celestial phenomenon over Nuremberg

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In the morning of April 14, 1561, at daybreak, between 4 and 5 a.m., a dreadful apparition occurred on the sun, and then this was seen in Nuremberg in the city, before the gates and in the country – by many men and women. At first there appeared in the middle of the sun two blood-red semi-circular arcs, just like the moon in its last quarter. And in the sun, above and below and on both sides, the color was blood, there stood a round ball of partly dull, partly black ferrous color. Likewise there stood on both sides and as a torus about the sun such blood-red ones and other balls in large number, about three in a line and four in a square, also some alone. In between these globes there were visible a few blood-red crosses, between which there were blood-red strips, becoming thicker to the rear and in the front malleable like the rods of reed-grass, which were intermingled, among them two big rods, one on the right, the other to the left, and within the small and big rods there were three, also four and more globes. These all started to fight among themselves, so that the globes, which were first in the sun, flew out to the ones standing on both sides, thereafter, the globes standing outside the sun, in the small and large rods, flew into the sun. Besides the globes flew back and forth among themselves and fought vehemently with each other for over an hour. And when the conflict in and again out of the sun was most intense, they became fatigued to such an extent that they all, as said above, fell from the sun down upon the earth 'as if they all burned' and they then wasted away on the earth with immense smoke. After all this there was something like a black spear, very long and thick, sighted; the shaft pointed to the east, the point pointed west. Whatever such signs mean, God alone knows. Although we have seen, shortly one after another, many kinds of signs on the heaven, which are sent to us by the almighty God, to bring us to repentance, we still are, unfortunately, so ungrateful that we despise such high signs and miracles of God. Or we speak of them with ridicule and discard them to the wind, in order that God may send us a frightening punishment on account of our ungratefulness. After all, the God-fearing will by no means discard these signs, but will take it to heart as a warning of their merciful Father in heaven, will mend their lives and faithfully beg God, that He may avert His wrath, including the well-deserved punishment, on us, so that we may temporarily here and perpetually there, live as his children. For it, may God grant us his help, Amen. By Hanns Glaser, letter-painter of Nurnberg
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It happened in 1566 three times, on 27 and 28 of July, and on August 7, against the sunrise and sunset; we saw strange shapes in the sky above Basel.
During the year 1566, on the 27th of July, after the sun had shone warm on the clear, bright skies, and then around 9 pm, it suddenly took a different shape and color. First, the sun lost all its radiance and luster, and it was no bigger than the full moon, and finally it seemed to weep tears of blood and the air behind him went dark. And he was seen by all the people of the city and countryside. In much the same way also the moon, which has already been almost full and has shone through the night, assuming an almost blood-red color in the sky. The next day, Sunday, the sun rose at about six o'clock and slept with the same appearance it had when it was lying before. He lit the houses, streets and around as if everything was blood-red and fiery. At the dawn of August 7, we saw large black spheres coming and going with great speed and precipitation before the sun and chattered as if they led a fight. Many of them were fiery red and, soon crumbled and then extinguished.
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Wiki description -
Soon, the object with the embedded lights appeared to be moving toward them, about 100 to 150 feet (30 to 46 m) above them, traveling so slowly that it gave the appearance of a silent hovering object, which seemed to pass over their heads and went through a V opening in the peaks of the mountain range towards Piestewa Peak Mountain and toward the direction of Phoenix Sky Harbor International Airport.
Between 8:30 and 8:45 pm, witnesses in Glendale, a suburb northwest of Phoenix, saw the light formation pass overhead at an altitude high enough to become obscured by the thin clouds. Amateur astronomer Mitch Stanley in Scottsdale, Arizona, also observed the high altitude lights "flying in formation" through a telescope. According to Stanley, they were quite clearly individual airplanes.
Approximately 10:00 pm that same evening, a large number of people in the Phoenix area reported seeing "a row of brilliant lights hovering in the sky, or slowly falling". A number of photographs and videos were taken, prompting author Robert Sheaffer to describe it as "perhaps the most widely witnessed UFO event in history".
(Further Details can be found in Out of the blue by James Fox)
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Mage Encounter, A mass UFO sighting in this case it seems to be "red fireballs" in the sky as backed up by the earlier Nuremburg, The video that accompanies is a great example of Human forces possibly "defending" airspace from unknown UAP's, this event was sighted by the entire town who was there to witness, in the video you can clearly see and hear artillery fire. There are so many different sources for the incident its hard to refute that this didn't happen. The maker of the video claims that all the info was scrubbed of the internet as fast as possible, and with the degree of clarity we find in some of the videos i honestly believe it is a strong possibility. This is a video i would honestly recommend to anyone due to the multitude of camera footage and sources by people who simply had nothing to gain from it. (yes the guy looks like david bowie in the thumbnail for the video, i dont know why he chose that...)
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So while there are other sightings by a mass of people i.e Varghina and other single UAP sightings, these stand out. Why? because from the basic information we are given by the early accounts Seem to coroberate with later accounts concerning the same shapes and objects.
Yes there are others that fit the description, and if someone wants to add some more info then feel free. But from a historian perspective, we have extremely detailed accounts in all four of these cases where a mass of people saw the same thing, and these stories even though from over half a milennia seem to have a specific connection.
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1. Mass sighting, plenty of references, in a public place. The fact that these are documented in such a fashion tells us that there must have been reputable sources to draw from, even early accounts have had a lot of reasearch through word of mouth, people in this age still cared about the validity of their statements.
2. In the Mage event and the nuremburg event there is a clear indication of combat. The Nuremburg phenomenon is explicitly unique in this manner, the idea of two forces from the heavens fighting is a very key part of information that should be taken into account with the current whistleblower claims, the idea of opposing UAP motives suggest that there are alteast two seperate factions at play here, and they are most likely not homogenous in that regard. The Mage incident seems to point toward Humans trying to destroy UAP's the fact that there is no direct massive retaliation on a larger scale suggests interesting insinuations. do they not care about their downed craft? AI, or an intermediatery buffer?
3. Very loose "scientific" reasons on why they happened, which from a realist point of view seems unlikely, i.e flares (why would a multitude of people be simply wrong).
4. The idea of mass fear from the unknown. Every UAP event that is witnessed seems to activate the fight or flight process ingrained within humans, something that cannot simply be explained with the current knowledge. The old sources just suggest wrath from the heavens, and punishment for various issues that wouldnt be considered by the church to be virtues.

These four examples line up, it is very difficult to cover up something that was recorded 500 years ago, while modern events are a lot easier.
If we can accept that some sort of phenomena has occured within these last 500 years, then surely we can look further back into history and look for some indicators of a previous event, which could be considered fringe by some, but may have some very realistic implications into the length that this has been occuring.
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In the Varaha kalpa, twelve battles between the devas and the asuras are described in the Brahmanda Purana. If anyone has watched ancient aliens then this may have come up a few times, while i dont agree with most of the fringe concepts posited some of the core thinking is correct in my opnion.
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The war in heaven, contained within the bible in the book of relevations.
Satan and his angels rebelled against God in heaven, and proudly presumed to try their strength with his. And when God, by his almighty power, overcame the strength of Satan, and sent him like lightning from heaven to hell with all his army.
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In Greek mythology the battle of the titans and the gods occurs in the sky.
This is how the great Titanomachy began, the war between the Titans and the Gods, with Zeus as their leader. This titanic battle lasted for ten years. The gods defeated the Titans and threw them into Tartarus, a dark and gloomy place as far from the earth as earth is from the sky. Then the gods fought with the Giants for the dominance of the world. The Gigantomachy lasted a long time as well. But the gods were again victorious. Thus, Zeus became the ruler of the whole world and he and the other gods settled in Olympus.
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If we can interpret the first four cases as being linked due to similarities, then it wouldn't be too far fetched to assume that these earlier encounters may have been the same as the nuremburg phenomenon, a way to explain in current human terms a possible battle in the heavens.
Is this irrefutable proof? No.
Are these coincidentally similar? Yes.
The idea of multiple forces battling for dominance is an interesting concept.
Has there been a galactic turf war that has led to one side attaining control over our solar system?
As unevolved beings with crude technologies and language (compared to an extremley advanced race) could we understand the signs?
As much as Ancient Aliens rubs me the wrong way, this is an interesting point that is made and is backed up outside of their own narrative. And i believe that if UAP's have been here for a long time, they may have been scrawled into various historical documents as religious phenomena.
Tell me what you think.

What's going on?
A recent Reddit policy change threatens to kill many beloved third-party mobile apps, making a great many quality-of-life features not seen in the official mobile app permanently inaccessible to users.
On May 31, 2023, Reddit announced they were raising the price to make calls to their API from being free to a level that will kill every third party app on Reddit, from Apollo to Reddit is Fun to Narwhal to BaconReader.
Even if you're not a mobile user and don't use any of those apps, this is a step toward killing other ways of customizing Reddit, such as Reddit Enhancement Suite or the use of the old.reddit.com desktop interface .
This isn't only a problem on the user level: many subreddit moderators depend on tools only available outside the official app to keep their communities on-topic and spam-free.
What's the plan?
On June 12th, many subreddits will be going dark to protest this policy. Some will return after 48 hours: others will go away permanently unless the issue is adequately addressed, since many moderators aren't able to put in the work they do with the poor tools available through the official app. This isn't something any of us do lightly: we do what we do because we love Reddit, and we truly believe this change will make it impossible to keep doing what we love.
The two-day blackout isn't the goal, and it isn't the end. Should things reach the 14th with no sign of Reddit choosing to fix what they've broken, we'll use the community and buzz we've built between then and now as a tool for further action.
What can you do?

1. Complain. Message the mods of reddit.com, who are the admins of the site: message reddit: submit a support request: comment in relevant threads on reddit, such as this one, leave a negative review on their official iOS or Android app- and sign your username in support to this post.
2. Spread the word. Rabble-rouse on related subreddits. Meme it up, make it spicy. Bitch about it to your cat. Suggest anyone you know who moderates a subreddit join us at our sister sub at ModCoord - but please don't pester mods you don't know by simply spamming their modmail.
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Rule are le simple 1. Use quotes for talking ic (in character), use nothing for actions, and use () for OOC (out of character) talking 2. I don't give a shit who you are as long as I'm the male and you the animatronic 3. Get crazy all you want we don't kink shame in this house (unless it's futa shit, sorry, but it's me, not you) 4. If you want you can implement lore from other things to spice up the scenario

I'm bisexual, and have always struggled when it comes to non-platonic relationships with other women.
I came out at 14, but only really started to explore my queerness in my 20s. I had a string of experiences with women, that brought down my confidence a lot.
TW: this might give you second hand embarrassment
My first time at a kink event, I ended up bonding with another bi woman over how difficult it was to find other bisexuals. It was our first time at a kink party, we bonded over hobbies and experiences and ended up doing some impact play and the chemistry was incredible, with both of us being very pleased with the experience. I said I'd like to continue outside the club, and she awkwardly said no. We exchanged numbers and I never received a reply to my text checking she was doing okay after. I understand that my question was intimidating, or too forward, and I must have come across as a creep?
Another time, I was at a queer club and made out with a gorgeous person. She asked me if I'd come by myself, and I replied "nope... it's awkward but I'm here with my homophobic cousin" — he wasn't aware it was a queer spot lol. All light drained from her eyes and she moved on immediately. It's not exactly something you'd want to hear when getting hot and heavy with someone.
Things continued like this, where I feel that I always say the wrong thing. It seems I'm always reading the vibes wrong. I have ADHD, which doesn't help when it comes to social situations, specially blurting out inappropriate things.
Recently, I had an incredible threesome with my meta and our shared partner. We all remarked how comfortable and natural it felt, and I felt a happiness I couldn't even describe. It felt like such a healing experience. Me and her had met a few times prior to that experience both as a 3 and just the two of us, and we had a wonderful time just hanging out and getting to know each other.
After the threesome, I asked what our dynamic was, and she said she didn't know, but she was open to finding out. I was fine with that, and excited to continue hanging out and letting things flow. But at the same time I was terrified of fucking things up due to my track record.
The next time we hung out just the two of us, at the end of the night I asked if we were going home separately, or if she wanted me to spend the night, implying that we might get sexual with each other. The vibes were that we were both tired, but I wanted to make sure I wasn't missing anything or misreading the situation, and I suppose I was curious to know how she was feeling about me. She declined, and we didn't talk after checking we got home okay since we don't text often.
Well, I should've kept my mouth shut. She's messaged me to say she felt awkward about my question and what happened, and that she wasn't prepared for me to have expectations of her, beyond being a friend. There was a finality to the message.
And I see it, the way I phrased it and the timing of the question were wrong. I feel terrible for making her uncomfortable and putting her in an awkward situation, and I'm horrified that I may have across as predatory, or entitled. I feel terrible that I keep saying the wrong things in these situations. I feel awful that I may have ruined our friendship, and the chance of another wonderful moment as a three. The only thing I can do is apologise to her.
In my experience in trying to date queer women, it feels like the other person always expects someone else to take the initiative, so I try to do that so I can set my expectations and understand what's happening and I go about it wrong. I just don't know how to navigate these situations, and it's so frustrating.

Ive tried searching on this sub but didn’t find exactly what I was looking for
I got a 1-yr old tattoo lasered off. Started in 2020, had 5 sessions with a butcher of whom actually I am unsure which laser he was using, followed by 5 sessions with a picolaser by a dermatological specialist.
The ink has faded away very nicely, but quite some scarring has remained, I think they are from the tattoo and not the laser.
Make me feel selfconcious because I usually get comments on it and I don’t want to get into the whole story. As a result I hardly ever wear clothes that keep my arms uncovered which sucks in summer.
Does anyone have tips? My dermatological specialist recommended another special laser (not sure which one it was) and I’ve had 3 sessions with those, but limited result

So for the past few weeks ive been trying to push myself and speak to new people, whether it be through dating apps or in person. The issue is that I talk to a decent amount of women on tinder, bumble… but I’m always scared to meetup because I feel like they don’t actually like me. For years people have thought I was gay, but I’m just very unconfident and feel like everyone new is paid to be friends with me, or they don’t actually like me… I don’t know what to do. I mean if someone swipes right and wants to meet up they obviously like me but I just can’t convince myself. Anyone have advice?

Meron po bang workshop or whatever (18+)? Plan ko sana mag enroll kahit 2 weeks lang. Ang boring sa house eh HAHAHAHA 🥰

Gross. That's just piss. I'm not entirely convinced that's a conspiracy set up by women just so they can finally piss all over us for once. I'm just sayin, ' I can completely control my piss and never have I ever mistook an orgasm for straight up urine. I'm not 100% sure its an involuntary reflex.